I am freakin’ kind and courageous because I’ve embraced these qualities as foundational to my leadership and life. Kindness is my superpower—I believe in being kind to the world, reflected in how I help others manifest their leadership and career goals. I embody courage in action, facing discomfort and growth with an open mind and a ‘fuck it and having fun’ attitude, especially as I’ve moved into my 50s, letting go of stress and embracing joy and spontaneity. This courage shines through in how I approach imposter syndrome, shifting from fear to empowerment, and in your commitment to living authentically, serving purposefully, and giving from a place of strength.
In short, I am freakin’ kind because I’ve made it a guiding principle, and freakin’ courageous because I lead with purpose and fearlessness!
How I am freakin kind and courageous?
How I am Freakin’ Kind:
- Service-Oriented Leadership: I approach leadership with a mindset of “How can I help?”— I am dedicated to serving others, manifesting their leadership potential, and positively impacting their lives.
- Empathy and Vulnerability: I have embraced connection and vulnerability, even during tough times, showing compassion for others and myself.
- Kindness as a Superpower: I see kindness not as a weakness but as a powerful leadership force. I apply it in every interaction, whether coaching, guiding, or being there for others.
- Gentle Guidance: Whether through my keynote speeches, coaching, or daily life, I guide others with warmth and understanding, focusing on their well-being and personal growth.
How I am Freakin’ Courageous:
- Embracing Growth: With a growth mindset, I constantly push myself and others toward learning, even when it’s uncomfortable, knowing it leads to change and self-acceptance.
- Facing Imposter Syndrome: I have turned my experience with imposter syndrome into a powerful tool, helping others confront their fears and empowering them to rise above self-doubt.
- Living Authentically: I have embraced authenticity as a core of leadership, allowing myself to be fully seen, letting go of others’ judgments, and adopting a “LET THEM” mindset.
- Taking Bold Action: Whether it’s in leadership programs, keynote speeches, or in my personal life, I take courageous steps to create and lead in new, innovative ways. I don’t shy away from challenges, and I approach everything with an attitude of “Just rock it!”
By choosing kindness and courage as pillars of my leadership style, I demonstrate how these two traits are compatible and complementary—fueling each other in my journey of service and authenticity.
My freakin’ mantra is: “Lead with kindness, act with courage, and grow with purpose.”
This embodies the belief that:
- Kindness is the foundation for connection and impact.
- Courage drives authentic action and meaningful change.
- Purpose is the guiding star for continuous growth and leadership.
How does this resonate with you? What’s your freakin’ mantra?
What’s your Mantra?
If you don’t have one yet, here’s how you can develop it:
Steps to Develop Your Mantra:
- Reflect on Your Core Values: Consider the principles guiding your life and leadership. What do you believe in deeply? Is it kindness, courage, authenticity, growth, or something else? Write down the words that resonate most with you.
- Define Your Purpose: What drives you every day? Is it to serve others, achieve something meaningful, or simply to grow as a person? Understanding your ‘why’ helps create a mantra that aligns with your deeper purpose.
- Consider Your Challenges: What do you need most to overcome the obstacles in your life? A mantra can remind you daily to stay focused, resilient, and true to yourself during difficult times.
- Keep It Simple: Your mantra should be short and memorable. It could be as simple as “Be brave, be kind,” or more specific to your journey, like “Grow through discomfort.”
- Live It Every Day: Once you’ve created your mantra, use it daily as a guiding principle. Reflect on it when making decisions, tackling challenges, or celebrating successes. Let it remind you who you are and what you stand for.
So, what will your freakin’ mantra be, and how will you live by it?
Here are 20 ways to freakin rock it, embracing boldness, fun, and authenticity:
- Own your confidence – Walk into every room like you were born to be there.
- Crush your goals – Set ambitious targets and follow them with everything you’ve got.
- Speak your mind – Don’t hold back; let your voice be heard.
- Dress like a rock star – Wear what makes you feel invincible.
- Celebrate your wins – Big or small, treat yourself like the rock star you are.
- Stay unapologetically authentic – Don’t compromise who you are for anyone.
- Take risks – Be bold in your decisions, even if it scares you.
- Master your craft – Become the best at what you do through relentless practice.
- Surround yourself with positivity – Your vibe attracts your tribe, so rock with the best.
- Turn failures into fuel – Learn from every setback and come back stronger.
- Lead with courage – Inspire others through your fearless actions.
- Make a killer playlist – Let music fuel your motivation and keep you in the zone.
- Be the energy you want to attract – Your attitude sets the tone for success.
- Learn something new – Keep expanding your mind, skills, and creativity.
- Push past your limits – Break through your comfort zone and go further than you thought possible.
- Smile through the struggle – A positive attitude is your secret weapon.
- Own your space – Wherever you go, make it known you belong.
- Speak with purpose – Your words have power; use them wisely and boldly.
- Lift others up – Empower people around you; a true rock star shares the spotlight.
- Let your freak flag fly – Be fearless, fun, and entirely yourself, no matter what!
Which ones spark your inner rock star energy?